Ever looked at that really awesome person, you know, the one who looks good, feels good, is always surrounded by many people and an invisible aura of coolness.
Of course you have. We all have. And you say to yourself ,”Why can’t I be like that person?”
Well, you can’t. He’s a completely different person altogether. How can we even measure two human beings? It’s like measuring apples and oranges. Completely irrelevant.
But all you people out there who want that aura of coolness, I’ll tell you the secret. Just LOVE yourself. Before saying ‘I love you’ to someone else, say it to yourself. If you don’t like yourself, how the hell else is someone gonna like you?!
Just be YOU. Honestly,you are a unique mixture of awesomeness or U.M.A. Be proud of yourself! For eg. You just completed a very intense workout, and you see this delicious piece of pie, you eat a bit of that delicious piece of pie with gusto cause you’ve earned it!( the weeknd reference 😉 )
And that brings me to the most important point of all. You might be thinking – If I’m such an awesome person, and I know that I’m such an awesome person, why don’t people realise it? Well, if you see that piece of specialness in yourself and others don’t, just leave them. Honestly. There’s this quote of Marilyn Monroe to help you out! 🙂
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Completely agree! It’s so important to love yourself first.
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I know right!! Unfortunately, many people tend to miss that step.
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Self-compassion is such a tough thing. It took me a long time to realize how I can be my own worst enemy in a very literal sense. Great post as usual 🙂
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True. We just don’t love ourselves. Thank you for your lovely feedback!
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having been “that” person in the past I have to say though, it sucks. One must never love themselves to such an extent that they stop caring for those around them. Love yourself but not as much as you can love another or else in your apathetic reign you might as well crush the others.
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A very different perspective. Thanks for sharing it! And thank you for your feedback.
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Very well said!Keep celebrating the UMA! 🙂
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Thank you for your lovely feedback!
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You’re so welcome 🙂
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I agree!
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True DAT! 😀
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This is completely true! Great post xx
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Thank you for your lovely feedback!
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reading this was never a waste of time i agree with this
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Awwww 😀
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Thank you for sharing this post. It is positive in all possible ways. 🙂
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Your welcome. 🙂
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I do wish more people were able to recognize that they are special as there is no other person on the planet that is as they are! Uniqueness equates to being special.
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Amen to that!
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Reblogged this on Dream Big, Dream Often and commented:
Be aware that you cannot be that other person so you better get busy being the best you that you can be!!
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Thank you for reblogging my post! 😀
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I thank you because it fit perfectly with my theme today! Great thought!
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We have to love ourselves first before we can love others. It’s akin to charity begins at home. One cannot be generous with love for others , while neglecting the ones at home. One cannot show off one’s love to God, without showing love and sympathy to fellow human beings who need it most., the meek, he poor, the disenfranchised.
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Amen to all of that. Love yourself before you love another. Thank you go your lovely and true comment. 🙂
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Agreed! And I love that Marilyn quote 🙂
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Thanks for your lovely comment! 🙂
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Great post. We all need to focus on character more than reputation 🙂
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True DAT.
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You’re totally right!! XD If you don’t love yourself, how on earth are you gonna love someone else??
Love your post, have a great day! XD
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Thanks for your lovely comment! And, you too!
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Thanks! XD
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Definitely! Social media doesn’t help with all the pictures of beautiful, fit people that travel to all these awesome places LOL. But you’re absolutely right! Loving ourselves and the joys of our own lives is what makes our life “THAT” life;)
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We seek validation from others, but we need to seek it from within. But, in today’s day and age it’s especially difficult.
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Yes, but with people like you to remind us all we can make it less difficult:)
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Awwww 🙂
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So wonderful. . Totally agree… Loving oneself is so very essential
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It is. It’s the most important thing. 🙂
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Very true 🙂
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Sweet! This post just made my day :3
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Glad you liked it! 🙂
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This was really inspiring! It’s just that we all have to be “BE YOU”! You were really good with the post.. 😊😀😄☺😇
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Thanks! I truly believe that we all are U.M.A – unique mixture of awesomeness. And, no one should tell us otherwise. 🙂
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Oh yeah!! 😉 😘
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Sage words for one so young. Perchance that is why I’m still reading through your archives. 😄
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😀
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