Who all get nervous just thinking about public speaking??? I know I do. Raise your hand if you feel this way too so I don’t feel awkward over here standing by myself with my hand raised.
So, a few days ago I participated in a debate competition. And a minute before my turn, I was getting extremely nervous.
Side note: Signs of nervousness include – 1)Thinking so much at a time, that one doesn’t know what to think anymore.
2)An overwhelming urge to run away, to go back home and forget about the speech that was never spoken by one.
3)Sweating. A lot.
4)Unnaturally cold palms.
5)A prayer asked by one for an earthquake at the same moment as one’s speech. Also, any other natural disaster will suffice.
6)Wanting everyone in the audience to look away when one gives one’s speech.
So, what’s the solution? Five seconds before my speech, I had an epiphany.
The epiphany goes something like this – “I’m never gonna see any of you all ever again. Ever. Ever! So it doesn’t even matter if I mess up. You all won’t remember me anyway! The joke’s on you all. Muahaha! See you never suckers!!!
This thought can calm anyone down in an instant! This method has been tried an tested! And is 100% Ramexa approved!
So I’m planning to share a life hack every week. What do you all think about it? Do comment!
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This is a great idea! I think I will do that to my co-workers everyday! Oh, I have to see them everyday? Oh well, I’m gonna do it anyways.
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Awesome!!! You go ignore all those people! XD
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I’ll do my best, but they make it really hard.
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They do. They really do. Just hang in there.
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Trying to hang.
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That’s a great hack! I was told to picture the audience naked or on the loo – that didn’t help – I just felt embarrassed for them lol 🙂 The trick is, the more you do it, the more relaxed you become – like riding a bicycle – you wobble around a bit at the beginning and then suddenly you’re multi-tasking while you cycle the city! 😉
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So true! Thank you for your lovely comment! 😀
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🙂 you are most welcome!
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What if you have to give a speech in front of your class whom you’re gonna spend another year and a half with? 😛
Also, my dad says the same thing omg! He’s like, think of the audience as stupid idiots. Hilarious, I know!
Great post!
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Its the same principle. You aren’t gonna see these classmates of yours ever again! Haha!! Thanks! 🙂
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I also get very nervous if I have to do some public speaking. I turn red and feel flushed and sweaty. I take a deep breath and also remember that more than half of the people I am speaking to will not dare step up to speak in front of a crowd themselves. So I just be myself and try not to focus on being perfect, but on just getting the message across:) Thanks for sharing your experience and this great life hack!
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Thank you so much for this lovely comment!
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I agree I use have the same feeling. But when u over come that u will give the best speech of u life all the times..
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True!!
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I like this approach. It puts the event in perspective and reminds one that this one little moment is not nearly as big as fear makes it out to be. Great job!
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Thank you for your lovely comment! 😀
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Thanks… I needed this shit! I am so nervous… 😀
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Don’t be. 🙂
You have no reason to be nervous! 🙂
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🙂 thank you for your kind consolation
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A really good idea!
I’ll be looking forward to reading your weekly life hacks. 🙂
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Thank you so much! 😀
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Hahah! I do the same thing even if I have to meet most of the members in the audience the following day. 😛 One of my tutors once told me to picture the audience in their underwears so that they seem less intimidating. This technique, fun as it may sound is very,very distracting! 😉
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Haha!!! I would be extremely distracted too! 😀
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I recently started doing something else. I started telling myself “Fake it till you make it.” Your brain gets relaxed even if you’re faking a smile, confidence or whatever and then things get easier. 🙂
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That’s an awesome hack as well! Faking confidence is much better than no confidence at all. 🙂
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I honestly don’t care anymore. No one in your class pays attention/cares anyway! Or they are asleep or on their phone. And half of the time the teacher doesn’t care either! So don’t worry! Just smile and laugh if you mess up!
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I know right! People don’t care, so why should I ?
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